Shtetl Discovery

I have learned one of the first steps in seeking information about a Jewish ancestor from Eastern Europe is to determine the shtetl where they lived.  This was a new word for me.  So first, I needed to know what a shtetl is.  A shtetl was typically a small town with a large Jewish population in Central and Eastern Europe prior to World War II and the Holocaust.

In the 19th century shtetls were mainly found in the areas which were known as the Pale of Settlement in the Russian Empire, the Congress Kingdom of Poland, Galicia and Romania.  Since our family knows that Joseph stated Tauroggen as his birthplace in his naturalization papers, this placed his family in this area.

Further searching uncovered a description of life in the shtetl as noted in Chapter 15 of There Once was a World: a Nine-Hundred-Year Chronicle of the Shtetl of Eishyshok by Yaffa Eliach.  Although I can't be sure if the descriptions paralleled Joseph's life, there were certain aspects that may have impacted both his childhood and the remainder of his life.  Specifically:

• The Household:  Often three generations lived under the same roof.  The pattern in Eastern Europe dating from at least the seventeenth century, was for young couples to establish their first household in the home of the wife's family. This made me wonder about the mention of Tilsit in connection with Joseph.  At one point it was thought that was his birthplace but this was corrected by finding his naturalization certificate and his US Army enlistment.  Now I wonder if perhaps that could be where his father was from and he came to Tauroggen where his wife's (Joseph's mother) family lived.  If you have any information that would shed light on this, please feel free to share.
       In addition, Joseph's mother passed away when he was a baby and his father remarried.  This meant he may have been part of another household.
• Sons-In-Law:  The treatment a son-in-law received in his new household may have differed greatly from what he experienced in his home prior to his marriage.  In the matriarchal society of homes, a son-in-law was often thought to be doing wrong much of the time unless he he was an aspiring scholar.
• The Jewish Matriarch:  In Eastern Europe of the seventeenth, eighteen, and nineteenth centuries, the home and its modest commercial enterprises were the woman's domain.  This makes it important to discover more about Joseph's mother and stepmother.  Could one of them have been the owner of the hotel/inn mentioned in Marrom family stories? 



Painting of Anatevka:  Everything I knew, or thought I knew, of Jewish life in Russia prior to the Russian Revolution came from the movie,
Fiddler on the Roof

• Step-Siblings and Orphan Relatives:  During the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries and the first two decades of the twentieth, perhaps as many as two-thirds of the marriages in the shtetl were second, third, and even fourth marriages.  This was the result of death rather than divorce.  Death also created a large number of orphans.  Many spouses brought with them the children from previous marriages where they were often considered a heavy burden and resented.  Could this have contributed to Joseph's immigration to the United States at such a young age?  Another factor may have been the anti-Semitic practice in Russia of impressing Jewish teenage boys into mandatory military service for as long as a 25 years.

Really interesting information, but it seems to have raised more questions than it resolved.  I have identified Joseph's shtetl based on his identifying Tauroggen as his birthplace.
     Stetl:  Taurage (Alternative Names/Spellings - Taurage/Lithuanian,
              Tovrik/Yiddish, Tauroggen/German, Taurogi/Polish,
              Taurage/Latvian,
              Taurogen, Tarogen, Tauragunay, Tauragnu, Tauragnay,
              Tauraginos, Tauraginai
     District (Uyezd):  Zarasai (I also found a reference to Raseiniai)
     Province (Guberniya):  Kaunas

Random boy in Lithuanian shtetl posted on Webshots.com by  itzko102

Do You Know Moses Marrom?

In our quest to find relatives of "Grandpa" Joseph Marrom, we have repeatedly come across the name of Moses Marrom. Moses lived in Chicago and was born in Russia. He immigrated to the United States in 1881 or 1882. This could fit with the family tradition which has led us to believe that Joseph stayed with relatives in New York, Illinois and Wisconsin after immigrating from Russia.

So far I have not been able to locate Skaadwill, Russia which was the city Moses cited as his birthplace. The physical description for Moses on his passport application bears a resemblance to the physical stature of Joseph on his military enlistment papers. Both were relatively short men with dark hair and dark complexions.

At the turn of the century Moses had a saloon on Rush Street in Chicago. I have located what I believe are two wives for Moses: Sarah, who appears to have died (or left?) after 1894; and Betty who married Moses in 1899.

If Moses Marrom is a "leaf" on your family tree, it would be interesting to explore stories to see if this could be a link to finding more family members.

Joseph's Family Tree

Although it is just a stub, I have posted a family tree on Ancestry.com. Hopefully we will be able to add branches. Much research has already been done on the Selk line and I will be adding as I can. We are still trying to identify any siblings Joseph may have as well as searching for grandparents, aunts and uncles. The journey has been very slow and continues to show signs of being a "road less traveled." The hope is that other travelers may come across our path and open up new landmarks. Suggestions from other travelers are always welcome.

http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/38062873/family?fpid=19176871405